It’s never too late to make healthy choices. You can still decide to stop sexual activity, starting now even if you have already had sex, or if you have engaged in other forms of sexual arousal or gratification. Many people realize they weren’t ready for sex and choose secondary virginity.
Take back control. Secondary virginity means that you care enough about yourself and your future to save sex for the right person and the right time – marriage. Deciding to start over is the hardest part.
Your decision to choose abstinence shows to others that you value yourself. Ways to help keep this commitment may include:
- communicating your standards to your friends,
- avoiding compromising situations, or
- finding nonphysical ways to show you care.
To get encouragement and to help you keep the commitment consider talking to your parents, teachers or a significant adult. Think twice, to prevent your secondary virginity looks incredible like virginity of a porno star.